Chapter 139
Based on Zhou Can’s understanding of Dr. Xu, it’s impossible he would completely write off Jin Mingxi just because he caused trouble in the surgery yesterday.
Dr. Xu always leaves some margin when he provides training opportunities.
Even if a surgical accident occurs, he has the capability to cover for them.
Many times, when faced with high-risk Level 2 surgeries, despite Zhou Can’s eager requests for training opportunities, Dr. Xu has refused.
This clearly shows that Dr. Xu only gives them surgical opportunities when the risks are controllable.
“Dr. Xu, please give me one more chance. I will be extra careful in the future and not overestimate my abilities.”
Jin Mingxi pleaded desperately.
He deeply regretted his actions.
Had he known the consequences would be so severe, he would have never taken that risk.
“You misunderstood! The reason you should not continue practicing basic fast-surgery skills is that you’re not suited for this path. To put it inappropriately, men naturally have stronger physical strength and are suitable for heavy physical tasks. Women have dexterous hands, better suited for needlework. Have you thought about why you caused trouble yesterday?”
Dr. Xu asked, staring at him.
“The patient’s omentum was a bit special during the separation, and I felt overwhelmed. But I continued anyway and that’s where I made the mistake. I will definitely learn from this profound lesson.”
Jin Mingxi had contemplated this over and over.
So, his response came instantly.
“That’s only part of the reason. I can assure you, even if you didn’t make a mistake yesterday, you would have eventually made one in the future.”
Dr. Xu said confidently.
Such prophecy-like words left Jin Mingxi looking utterly dejected.
“I’ve said before, to pursue the path of fast surgery, one must have tranquility in their heart. You are mature and stable, but you lack Zhou Can’s focus and tranquility. These traits, theoretically, can be acquired through nurturing, various training, and personal cultivation and insight. However, there is a significant trait in human nature; it’s almost impossible to change after the age of eleven.”
Human personality is mostly shaped at birth.
Some believe personality can be inherited from parents, but scientists have been surprised to find that it’s not the case.
For instance, careless parents might have meticulous children.
What is perceived as inherited is actually the influence of parental behavior and teaching.
Many people think that it is only after a child is born that parental behavior and teaching will impact the child.
In fact, from the moment the mother is pregnant, influences from parents and external environments start affecting the child.
Before the age of eleven, there is a chance to change a child’s personality.
Theoretically, younger children are more malleable.
It’s possible to shape a child’s personality towards a better direction through parental influence, education, guidance, and conscious nurturing.
After eleven, the child’s personality traits are generally set; they have formed strong opinions and their own ways of thinking, making parental education less effective.
Jin Mingxi, already 35 years old, has well-established personality traits.
It’s difficult to change inherent nature.
“You lack tranquility. If you continue practicing basic fast surgery skills, it will only exacerbate the restlessness and resentment in your heart. During surgeries, you would uncontrollably be competitive, seeking immediate success. That’s why I said, even if nothing happened yesterday, it would still happen in the future.”
Dr. Xu is experienced, knowledgeable, and broad-minded.
His analysis has its virtues.
Jin Mingxi pondered for a moment, then sighed deeply, “It seems to be just that. What should I do then?”
He was somewhat panicked.
He didn’t expect that practicing the basic skills of fast surgery would bring harm.
Frequent accidents are frightening.
“The last time you asked me whether you were more suited for steady or precise surgical styles, I can now answer you. You are suited for steady. Whether it’s your personality, innate talent, or temperament, you are better off pursuing steadiness. Thus, you can learn from Director Hu Kan’s practice methods. Maintaining the arms raised, holding two strands of hair without moving. This practice shares a mysterious similarity with Buddhist meditation and Taoist sitting meditation.”
“It not only stabilizes your hands but also trains your tranquility and focus.”
Dr. Xu showed him a clear path.
Choosing the path best suited for oneself is the best approach.
“I understand, thank you for your guidance.”
At this moment, Jin Mingxi finally understood that Dr. Xu wasn’t trying to condemn him to hell for his mishap.
Instead, it was because he was truly not suitable for the path of fast surgery.
He decided to try changing to a more steady surgical style.
Dr. Lu had been all ears on the sideline.
Including three female nurses, they were all quietly listening to Dr. Xu’s profound discussion.
Such deep medical knowledge cannot be learned from books.
Listening more could expand their thinking and horizons.
It was very beneficial for them.
“Dr. Xu, am I suited to learn fast surgery?” Dr. Lu felt somewhat envious of Zhou Can and Jin Mingxi. Both of them had learned sophisticated surgical practice methods from Dr. Xu.
Especially Zhou Can, no wonder he was so impressive.
It turns out he had received the legacy of fast surgery from Dr. Xu.
Dr. Xu looked at Dr. Lu for a few moments.
Dr. Lu cooperatively stood straight, like a well-disciplined student.
“If you can get rid of your laziness, that would be your biggest victory.”
His comment made everyone burst into laughter.
Fortunately, there were no patients in the operating room.